The final year

The last year for the decade number three before hitting the big 3-Oh.

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So far, it’s the best decade yet where many milestones reached and achieved. The decade where I’m old enough to be able to make my own decisions,to vote, to experience life as an individual, being free and accountable for every action. This is the decade where my opinions starting to actually matter to the mass market (people actually listen to me! and do as I told… sometimes) and many of firsts too (first car, first job, first own company, first big loss…). And as I grow in this decade, I found ways to exercise many of my rights and became more confident and sure of myself.

Today, I am more at peace with the world. I am more calm in dealing with head on problems and I learn to take things rationally. Yeah.. I’m now at the age of the “old enough to know things better and still young enough to be hopeful of the future” and I’m loving every moment of it.

I’m thankful for every bit of those tipsy turvy journeys I had for the past 29 years of being alive. ¬†So lucky that throughout the entire time of being in my 20s, I have my man (that very same guy I woke up to this morning – I like to think us like Marshall and Lily from HIMYM.. hahaha perasan much?), the family and the girlfriends with me along the way.

Today, in the celebration of celebrating me (and so are the entire women race out there – it’s the International Women’s Day too), I’m putting in a list of thirty things to do before 30. Let see if we can strike out as much as possible by March next year. Yeah. I’m ever the hopeful. No doubt.

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I intentionally did not factor my career in this list because it will not be my main focus this year. During the early stage of my working years, I often find myself playing catch up with work, doing those extra miles, burning the extra hours (sometimes even my own dimes) that leaves me burned out in the end for something I did not even care. Work will always be .. well work. No point fussing over it.

Happy birthday, me. Remember to always be happy and thankful. The Queen Bee deserves to be celebrated today too. So thank you, Ma. I love you.

Of a pact and three engagements

According to them, I was the drip that creates the ripple effect. Well, this is not really the case of a wonder. Because I know that first, we are already in the right age and mind for marriage. Plus, 10 years ago, I made them promised not to get married before I did and they happily agreed to the arrangement. In a way, it has become a self-fullfilling prophecy.. like or not hehehehe.

And so, to date, three very loud girls (including me) has now officially¬†donning the ring around their ringers, marking the symbol of commitment. My congrats are to the lucky lads who managed to score these superwomen. (Yes, I’m super too. Super happy)

Now ladies, on to the next step – planning for the big day. Good luck, girls

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